Monday, December 23, 2013

Resolving conflict in relationships...

Conflict leads to increase connectedness if viewed & resolved from a godly perspective. Jesus modeled dealing with conflict in the gospels-He was unwilling to settle for anything less than the truth & freedom God promised. Many avoid conflict because it takes time, effort, work, honesty, vulnerability, bringing flaws into the light & taking responsibility, preferring the other person's feelings & making apologies. The process is tiring...but the investment is priceless-for the conflict process leads to increase truth in the relationship. Truth is the foundation for freedom to be exercised-walking out the purpose God planned for your life. Those willing to address conflicts invest their time, mind & hearts & it pays off-returning high yields of peace & enjoyment throughout the course of the relationship. Those unwilling to address conflict settle for strain & strife; a baseline of dissatisfaction... robbing them of the freedom that truth promises their relationship. Will you be willing to address conflict so you can live in the truth & freedom God offers? (Eph 4:24-28, John 8:32, Phil 2:14, Pr 8;7, 2 Cor 3:17) 9/28/13CIFL-LMM

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